#MissionMonday: Effy

 In Family Story, Mission Monday, Our Mission

effy-animalKnown to many as Effy, five-year-old Elizabeth loves being outside and running around with her little brother Harry. She is currently thriving in kindergarten, learning to ride a bike and has decided she wants to be a firefighter when she grows up.

This happy, spunky, “old soul” has come a long way. In 2013, her parents noticed a small lump on her ribcage and brought her to the doctor. Soon after, she was diagnosed with acute lymphoblastic leukemia at just two years old.

A new way of life

“I felt like all of the oxygen had been sucked out of the room, it was a pain I had never felt before,” says Jennifer, Effy’s mom, reflecting on her reaction upon hearing the news. “I had cried so much leading up to this day with the fear and worry that I couldn’t even cry anymore. I was just stunned.”

Effy was immediately admitted to Lucile Packard Children’s Hospital, a Family Reach partner, and began her treatment. Right away, Effy was put through a series of painful procedures. Nurses put an IV into her tiny hand and did their fair share of poking and prodding. The family of four faced non-stop appointments and visits from doctors and nurses. They could barely sleep at night in the hospital room.

“For us, it was all exhausting and the stress was crushing. The loss of control was crippling,” says Jennifer. “I was so used to having power over what happened to us and this was all out of our hands. It really forced us to be positive and have faith that everything would be okay.”

Finding comfort amidst the chaos

Before Effy’s diagnosis, both parents worked fulltime at a nearby school. Effy’s care requirements paired with Harry’s inability to attend daycare due to the risk of infection forced Jennifer to stop working and take an unpaid leave of absence. The family experienced financial strain and couldn’t pay their mortgage. That’s when their social worker connected with Family Reach. We were able to cover their bill immediately.

“They helped us at one of our low points,” says Jennifer, reflecting on this period of her family’s journey.

Struggling financially was a side effect of cancer that Effy’s family had never imagined. We helped remove some of this burden and allowed them to focus on Effy, which Jennifer considered an irreplaceable contribution.

We’re happy to report that, after three years of treatment, Effy is now cancer-free. Jennifer has returned to work and Effy and Harry are back at school and daycare.

“Life is a precious gift. Nothing is more important than family,” says Jennifer, with her heart full of gratitude